But Jesus answered, "You do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I am to drink?" They said to him, "We are able." He said to them, "You will drink my cup, but to sit at my right hand and at my left is not mine to grant, but it is for those for whom it has been prepared by my Father."

Matthew 20:22-23

"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all men generously and without reproaching, and it will be given him."

- St. James 1:5